I was recently reminded of one of the most powerful spiritual tools of all, blessing others and situations regardless of circumstances.  And as life goes, a situation recently flowed into my life allowing me to exercise this truth at a much greater level than ever before.

In January, my mother passed on, and the circumstances surrounding this event gave me insurmountable opportunities to bless or condemn certain family members involved.  My initial instinct was to focus my energy on protecting my mother by standing for what I believed was right and true.

However, after a period of time the details of the wrongs that took place consumed my every thought leaving me feeling sad and angry.  It took a car accident and several sleepless nights to change my course and start blessing this situation and the people involved.  Perhaps you can relate…

Let’s face it, family can be the most challenging to bless, forgive, and love.  This is especially true with ones we have negative past experiences with.  The best part is that when we consciously shift our energy it changes the dynamics in our life.

To assist myself during these bumps in the road, I’ve created effective ways to get myself back on track with my inner being.  One of my favorites is watching my Abraham-Hicks DVD’s.  It’s uncanny how the messages I need to hear are always the ones that come forth helping me release my negative emotions and bless once again.

A cool thing about giving blessings is that they literally clear out the gunk in our hearts, minds, and bodies that attract negative situations through emotions such as worry,  frustration, fear, conflict, and anger. I think of it as freeing myself from all negative attachments, clearing the slate to live life joyously as it was intended.

Blessing, simply stated, is a conscious action of our will to send positive energy to someone or a situation.  It has nothing to do with right and wrong or justice whatsoever.  It’s only about us choosing the energy that we want matched and returned in our own lives.

By choosing to sincerely bless others we also disable the power for others to hurt us.  Overtime, circumstances and people will change or naturally flow out of our lives due to the energies not matching.

In closing, blessing is a powerful gift free of charge to everyone.  However, I also believe there is a great cost to us and to our lives to withhold blessings by refusing to give them.

The state of our lives is a boomerang matching each of the daily choices we make regarding our families, jobs, and relationships.  The cumulative effects of these choices result in living unsatisfying, discontent, miserable lives or happy, joyful, fulfilling lives.

The beautiful thing about God is that each of us can choose to change this at any time by sincerely blessing others and situations in our lives.  And so it is…

Blessings to each of you,

Connie

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Recently, my husband, Taner, Kodiak (our cat), & I moved from Minnesota to Southern California out of a great desire to live in the land of warmth & sunshine flowing with incredible positive energy. While the moving part had lots of blessings & contrast we were ecstatically happy to live where the sun shines most of the time and it is warmer!

During this time of multiple changes, I experienced a roller coaster of emotions, everything from mountain top faith & joy to worry & gripping fear; usually not all at once but each individually for sure. I even maintained faith for a prolonged period of time but fear & worry always crept back in. It was exhausting! Nevertheless, all of this has led me to the path I am now on which is the Gift I am now sharing with you.

After learning and applying a LOT of educational materials on manifesting my desires through The Law of Attraction, I threw my arms up in the air. I believed it was all true but my fears were still there, I could feel them. Some programs stated that if I simply thought about or did things that made me feel good (taking my attention off of my fears) that I would manifest my desires. While I believed that to be true I wasn’t able to maintain feeling good long enough to allow my desires to flow into my life. Help!

I finally realized that my fears had been present for many years and had quite a hold on me. Even when I was focused on other things, my fears were playing in my mind the same as background music in a restaurant. I knew that my desires could not manifest while I was worrying about things because fear and doubt stop us from aligning with our desires faster than anything else! I decided it was time to face my fears & learn how to eliminate them rather than pretending they weren’t there or accept living in a miserable state knowing what I wanted and not getting it.

So I asked the universe to show me the root of my fears so I could eliminate them forever. My answer came in an e-mail that same day on the very subject I asked about – Eliminating Fear. I was so drawn to this information that I purchased and studied it right away. I finished the first e-book in one day, then onto the others. I was glued to every word. It is important to note that I was inspired to purchase this information. And that’s because it was the right timing, I was truly ready…

I learned that my fears were based on my perceptions of previous experiences and the current reality I created for my life through daily choices. That explained why I worried so much even know I didn’t want to. My perceptions and daily choices needed an overhaul!

I also learned about doubtless faith, a pure faith without any doubt, worry, or trying to figure out how things will happen. It is simply trusting the universe, regardless of how things look or might be at the time. Now, doubtless faith takes daily practice the same as fear does. First we must understand what it is then apply it consistently to powerfully create and manifest our desires. The more we practice doubtless faith the more confident and powerful we become.

By practicing doubtless faith daily, it increasingly becomes easier & easier to keep our minds powerfully focused on what we want. This is the key to quicker manifestation. The challenge is doing this while living our lives with all its drama & interruptions. That’s where I got stuck and still would be if I wouldn’t have asked the universe for an answer, taken inspired action, learned & applied this information in my daily life.

The power to create our dreams is real! It is the energy force of the universe. And the best part is that it does NOT require hard work, sacrifice, or compromise! It is the power to create a life of ease, filled with love, wonder, laughter, and play. And it is available to each of us right now! It is our birthright. When practicing doubtless faith, nothing is out of reach. There are no limitations. The universe must bring to pass that which is commanded by faith and has no doubt.

This incredible series of three e-books are called Outrageous Mastery! When followed, they will equip you to live the life you desire. Like me, you were drawn to this information for a reason. Perhaps it is the right time in your life to make some changes also. So if you feel inspired to obtain these e-books to live the powerful life you deserve with doubtless faith click on the Outrageous Mastery link on the right. If you don’t feel inspired that just means this may not be the right time in your life.

As for me, I have consciously changed the perceptions that created my past fears & worries and now practice doubtless faith daily. I start each day with my hour of power, meditating & appreciating. Dedicating this time daily has resulted in me feeling peaceful, confident, & powerful.

Now I am both content & eager, trusting the universe with the unfolding of my incredible life. Of course, there still is and always will be contrast. It’s simply part of the life cycle that causes greater creations to come forth. The bottom line is that by choice we let fear or faith, direct our lives. And I can tell you that from personal experience living life with faith feels so much better than fear! And so it is….

Connie

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Most of us wonder if it is necessary to clean up unwanted past creations in order to manifest what we now want through the Law of Attraction. The fact is the LOA doesn’t require clean up of anything we previously created. All we have to do is choose to let go of the resistance we are holding onto about the unwanted creation. Then we allow ourselves to flow closer and closer towards our new desire from where we are right now.

We can witness this firsthand by watching nature as it unfolds each spring with new plant growth bursting through the previous years growth as it reaches towards the sunshine. It doesn’t require clean up of any past years plant debris to grow and thrive. It simply thrives in the now letting nature take care of the past as it was designed to. There is no need for any care or worry whatsoever…nature is just there for us to observe, enjoy, and appreciate. This is evolution at its finest!

Sounds easy enough for us to do also, doesn’t it? It actually is that easy once we understand releasing resistance and focusing on what we want, knowing it is ours. But for most people it is not this simplistic. Even though they want to release the resistance and all of the bad feelings associated with the unwanted creation they cannot.

The reason for this is that they are focused on what they created in the past rather than living and creating in the now. They have chosen (by default) to replay those past limiting negative thoughts over and over in their mind to the point that they developed into a limiting belief. Beliefs are simply developed by thinking the same thoughts over and over. So you can choose to change any belief you want to – really – believe me.

So now what? You know your unwanted creation doesn’t feel good and you want it to stop – right NOW!!! Pleassee… It would be great if those feelings of utter frustration and pleading worked but they don’t, they only get you more of what you do not want because the LOA responds to energetic vibrations not words or cries for help. To change this cycle you must first understand & accept that your negative feelings (contrast) are actually a very good thing because they have caused you to know exactly what you DO NOT want which is half of the creation process and the starting point to knowing what you DO want.

Contrast is your friend. It is a natural flow of the creative cycle and equally important as knowing what you do want. Without contrast you would stop creating which is impossible. There is no need to try to create contrast or try to stop it from coming into your life. Simply allow it to gently flow in like a wave and then ask yourself “So now what is it I DO want?” Then listen…for the answer.

In order to shift your vibrations and feelings towards what you NOW want you must first choose to let go of the old limiting beliefs you created and practiced for so long. It is as simple as letting go of a rope in a tug of war. When you let go, all of the resistance goes with it. Poof – it is gone!

Now it’s time for a new perspective. From where you are right NOW spend time imagining how you want things to be in your life or in a particular situation. Then close your eyes and visualize having it that way, focusing on the positive feelings that come forth.

You don’t have to pretend it is the way you want it to be. Just simply practice change your perspective by telling the new story you imagined as you talk to different people. As you continue practicing your new story your positive feelings will grow shifting your vibrational energy into greater alignment with having it.

To further assist you with alignment start each morning choosing to be happy and blessing everything and everyone around you, especially negative people and situations that flow into your day. Blessings are perfect gifts we choose to give others regardless of behaviors and circumstances. The more we bless others the greater alignment we experience with our true inner beings.

Practicing this daily, subject by subject, for one week, then a month, will dramatically transform your life right before your eyes. This is the part of the LOA I love so much! We are all empowered to change everything and anything we want when we choose to and practice our new creations!

While you are practicing this process of becoming a more deliberate creator you may at times feel immensly frustrated and even say, “Hey, I was better off the way I was when I didn’t know and choose what I was creating. Now I feel worse than before!” Don’t lose heart! Be easy about it and love yourself through this process.

It takes time to flow naturally with this the same as anything else you practice to be proficient at. And you must know that you cannot make any wrong choices for yourself. Everything is always a destined part of your personal experience and expansion. Be at peace with where you are at, all is well and is unfolding perfectly. And so it is…

Connie

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