I was recently reminded of one of the most powerful spiritual tools of all, blessing others and situations regardless of circumstances.  And as life goes, a situation recently flowed into my life allowing me to exercise this truth at a much greater level than ever before.

In January, my mother passed on, and the circumstances surrounding this event gave me insurmountable opportunities to bless or condemn certain family members involved.  My initial instinct was to focus my energy on protecting my mother by standing for what I believed was right and true.

However, after a period of time the details of the wrongs that took place consumed my every thought leaving me feeling sad and angry.  It took a car accident and several sleepless nights to change my course and start blessing this situation and the people involved.  Perhaps you can relate…

Let’s face it, family can be the most challenging to bless, forgive, and love.  This is especially true with ones we have negative past experiences with.  The best part is that when we consciously shift our energy it changes the dynamics in our life.

To assist myself during these bumps in the road, I’ve created effective ways to get myself back on track with my inner being.  One of my favorites is watching my Abraham-Hicks DVD’s.  It’s uncanny how the messages I need to hear are always the ones that come forth helping me release my negative emotions and bless once again.

A cool thing about giving blessings is that they literally clear out the gunk in our hearts, minds, and bodies that attract negative situations through emotions such as worry,  frustration, fear, conflict, and anger. I think of it as freeing myself from all negative attachments, clearing the slate to live life joyously as it was intended.

Blessing, simply stated, is a conscious action of our will to send positive energy to someone or a situation.  It has nothing to do with right and wrong or justice whatsoever.  It’s only about us choosing the energy that we want matched and returned in our own lives.

By choosing to sincerely bless others we also disable the power for others to hurt us.  Overtime, circumstances and people will change or naturally flow out of our lives due to the energies not matching.

In closing, blessing is a powerful gift free of charge to everyone.  However, I also believe there is a great cost to us and to our lives to withhold blessings by refusing to give them.

The state of our lives is a boomerang matching each of the daily choices we make regarding our families, jobs, and relationships.  The cumulative effects of these choices result in living unsatisfying, discontent, miserable lives or happy, joyful, fulfilling lives.

The beautiful thing about God is that each of us can choose to change this at any time by sincerely blessing others and situations in our lives.  And so it is…

Blessings to each of you,

Connie

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When I was first approached by a dear friend from Australia about the LifeWave patches I was not interested much at all.  This was mainly due to the patches sounding so simplistic and life changing as so many products claim to be now days.   I basically told my friend to use them for a period of time and then let me know her results. She did so and kept me updated with her progress along the way.

After hearing about the changes taking place in her body, I finally e-mailed her asking to send additional information my way.  The more I researched the LifeWave patches the more I became interested in the science of this new nanotechnology that combined modern Western technology with ancient Oriental acupuncture.

At this point in my life, I had never heard of nanotechnology.  But with my vast background in holistic health, I am always open to the new products coming forth to improve our lives.  Hands down, I found the science behind these patches of significant value.  They also take the place of using a number of products to accomplish the same results, thus making them more cost effective to use.

In fact, I would go so far to say that this technology fits my belief system that ‘Life was meant to be simple and so should the products we use in our daily lives’.   In my opinion, products should be highly effective and simplistic in nature to use, ultimately assisting us in maintaining a healthy lifestyle.

Due to the high trust level I have with my friend I decided to give the patches a go and experience them for myself.  Even though I am much healthier than the average American from using great products, I still have sun damage among some age related issues that could be improved on.

Upon using the Y-Age patches, which are the basic patches that naturally detoxify, protect and repair the body, I experienced positive changes within the first week.  My brain fog cleared up and my muscles weren’t tight and sore anymore after daily yard work.  It was quite remarkable to have this happen in such a short amount of time.

I knew that heavy metals contributed to my brain fog because many years ago I came close to having mercury poisoning.  Even though I have been intermittently detoxifying the heavy metals out of my body it obviously wasn’t enough or I wouldn’t have had brain fog in the first place.  However, once you are in the fog you don’t see things clearly.  Ha!  Just after one short week of using the Y-Age patches I felt sharp and clear minded once again.

Nonetheless, it’s an ongoing process detoxifying harmful toxins out of the body.  The reason for this is that we are exposed to more toxins than ever before through the air that we breathe, the foods we eat, our personal care products, and our home and work environments.

As far as my muscles feeling better, the Y-Age patches helped prevent the buildup of lactic acid in the muscles.  How great is that?  Lactic acid had been a lifelong problem for me as far as I can remember.  Not anymore though.  Now I know why so many star athletes and Olympians have been using these patches.  And I must say that it feels so good to work out or do yard work and not be sore after wards.

After the first month of usage here are some of the other positive changes I noticed:

• My hips and Psoas muscle have become both pliable and flexible.  They used to lock up from sitting in my office chair for long periods of time making it difficult to walk normal after I got out of my chair.  Now they don’t bother me at all.

• The impingement in my left shoulder blade has totally released.  It feels great now.

• My freckles have been disappearing on my face, legs and arms with my overall skin looked healthier.  Not bad for an AARP member, hey?  Personally, I love looking younger than my physical age.  It keeps people wondering…

• I sleep better than usual without waking up several times per night.  Ahh..deeper sleep.

I am very impressed with what this product has done so far. So I made a commitment to use the Y-Age patches daily for a period of three months to experience what a longer cycle may bring forth in my body and overall health.  Then I will reassess them again for further usage.

However, from my current experiences and intuitive sense, I do suspect that the patches will become part of my regular lifestyle.  After all, there is a reason they came into my life as they did.

Day by day, I can literally feel the vibrational energy flow improving through my meridians.  They feel like energy pulsating much like when you sit in a massage chair and it vibrates your body, only these vibrations are felt internally.   This too is a new experience…

I have since learned, as the meridian blocks are released, the level of vibrational energy (life waves) and information that travels throughout the body improves.  And the quantity and quality of a person’s life is in direct proportion to the vibrations of the life wave, thus greatly affecting the body’s health, vitality and longevity.  And so it is…

Connie

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I wanted to share this very funny story with you that happened to me yesterday . It made me laugh all day long! And since it did I must share it. It may help with your alignment just when you need it. So here goes:

I was in the grocery store shopping for specific foods to lose some of the weight I had gained since being married this past year from eating foods I usually don’t eat & eating more often than when I was single.

Anyway, this gal walks up to me and says “Hi, I just wanted to say something that women don’t say often enough to each other. But first, I want to tell you that I am married and have kids. I am a normal woman not some weirdo. You have the greatest shaped butt I have ever seen. When I looked over this way I saw you and thought, ‘Wow, she has something going on in that trunk!’ So I had to come over and tell you that you have it going on in that butt of yours. It is absolutely beautiful!”

Then she pulled up her hospital uniform in the back and said “And look at mine, I just have this weenie butt with no shape at all. So I just had to share my thoughts with you because we women never tell each other things like this. We usually just walk by being jealous of each other.”

At first, I was shocked, then, started laughing so hard. I thanked her for her observation and then told her that I was actually at the store to purchase foods to decrease this butt of mine. How funny is that! I said “I have had to buy bigger jeans due to not being able to get my old ones over this round curvy butt.” Then we laughed together and she went on her way.

Now for the Perspective Differences:

My Perspective
Prior to this, I had never experienced weight gain issues due to a good metabolism, eating pretty well and not eating sweets. My philosophy has always been that I eat to live not live to eat. So I was very unhappy the day I decided to purchase new jeans because of my weight gain. I had been putting it off hoping to drop some weight but it didn’t happen. It got to the point that the jeans I was wearing were so tight I couldn’t bend to sit down! I was so uncomfortable and unhappy about this every day.

In addition, my underwear didn’t fit anymore either. So I had to buy new ones. And this is not an easy task for people with voluptuous butts let me tell you! I think most women’s underwear are made for people without butts because mine never stay put, they always ride up over my round cheeks. It is exhausting always tugging them back into place. I even tried the thong panties but to me they are like giving myself a snuggie from the start – highly uncomfortable – at least for me with round cheeks. So now I own a LOT of underwear that don’t stay put. I even thought of not wearing any undies at all… maybe I’ll try that next.

I also focused my point of attraction on my entire wardrobe of beautiful clothes that I could not wear due to my weight gain. The bottom line was none of my pants went over my butt so I had to buy new jeans to have something to wear. I even called my friend Arlene when I got home from shopping and shared my dismay with her about my new larger jeans. I told her that this was a new day in the history of my life, one I was truly not happy about. She said “CJ it’ll be fine, don’t worry about it.” Ya, sure ‘ya betcha!

Every time I looked in the mirror I sighed with disappointment in myself for gaining weight. I even started to blame my husband Taner for continually trying to stick food in my mouth that I never eat. He eats some foods I chose to eliminate years ago from my diet such as white sugar and fried foods. In his country of Turkey, it is a kindness to share food with others.

Then one morning I decided to change my perspective knowing I was getting more of what I did not want by focusing on it. I finally took responsibility for my weight gain and started the work of loving myself again. Every morning I looked in the mirror naked and said, “Connie, I love and approve of you and every inch of this body, cellulite and all. You are a beautiful loving woman.” Then throughout the day every time I passed by a mirror I would say the same thing. This exercise is taken from Louise Hay’s book ‘You Can Heal Your Life.’ She teaches us to truly love ourselves, setting the example for others to love us. This is the first step to aligning with our inner beings. So over time I began accepting my weight gain and simply loving myself. Day by day I felt my vibrational energy shifting in the right direction. Simply put, I felt better about myself by practicing better thoughts and a new perspective.

My Husbands Perspective
Taner loves my butt! He thought I was too thin before and felt like he was going to break my bones when he hugged me. So he doesn’t want me to lose weight at all. In fact, he walks by me daily, grabs my buttocks and says “Here is my beautiful lady, I love this butt!” So I can’t be mad at my husband who loves me from the inside out, now can I?

Law of Attraction Perspective (LOA)
Loving ourselves and others is the foundational key to aligning with our inner being. When we practice this consistently our lives are joyful and optimistic with our desires manifesting more easily. In addition, we are more capable of allowing others to live their own experiences without our negative input. Love also releases us to live the life of freedom that is the basic tenant of our being as Abraham states. Then we flow with the universe creating incredible things!

A visual example of this would be turning on a garden hose full force then bending it in half. This stops the flow of water (goodness) from one end while the water pressure (frustration) builds up on the other end. Sound familiar? Then when we choose to let go of the hose the water slowly flows again making its way through the kinks until it is free flowing.

In closing, we each have the freedom to choose or change our perspective AKA point of attraction for each situation in our lives as I did about my beliefs of food which led to weight gain. In fact, if I would have practiced love, allowing my husband to be who he is, instead of resisting & trying to control the situation I wouldn’t have gained weight in the first place.

I did not tend to my vibrational alignment by paying attention to my negative feelings early on. So if you have an area that doesn’t feel good to you perhaps you could choose to practice a new perspective rather than the one you have been practicing that makes you feel bad.

I can tell you from experience your energy and circumstances will shift because the LOA is a universal law that attracts like to like. Then you will feel good again releasing the flow of goodness in your life…and so it is.

Connie

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